Being a Mother is More Than…
This weekend we celebrate Mother’s Day. And I want to encourage you (even if you’re a man) to acknowledge yourself – and others! – for the multitude of ways in which we “mother.”
The definition of mother and motherhood is often outside the tradition definition and is also defined as "a creative source; an origin," "to give birth to; create and produce," and "to watch over, nourish, and protect."
This is not to take away any respect and honor from those who’ve raised children; rather to acknowledge that we often "mother" ideas, organizations, communities, groups of people and more.
When we take responsibility for bringing to fruition a goal, are we acknowledging the "mothering" we do? The title of "mother" is revered and respected. It is important because, if done well, is a very important role.
The idea of motherhood is applied to people who have never physically birthed a baby, and for those that have, may apply to more than just their offspring.
I bring up this idea now because, as we "mother" concepts, ideas and possibilities for Latinos, we play a role in a changing and evolving country. For those of you involved in non-profit organizations, you may very well "mother" dozens and maybe even hundreds of people. | |
For those of you in organizations where you play a strong mentorship role to others, you "mother" the possibilities in each member of your team or mentees.
For those of you in communities, in churches, in groups of friends and families where you find yourself nurturing, supporting and watching over others, you are the mothering spirit, the key in those places.
Acknowledge ALL the ways in which you and others "mother" in ways big and small. Acknowledge that the idea of "mothering" is not limited to women, and not limited to our relationship with humans younger than us. Acknowledge that the idea of "mother" is a sacred idea, and that we can use this idea to grow each other, to give birth to things, and to be the creative source, the origin for the change we want to see in our world.
This mother's day, while we do take time to honor the women in our lives who "mothered" us, also honor the idea of being a "Mother" in all the wondrous and amazing ways...

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